I cannot have the one offending obituary changed since I’m not family, so I need to go “on record”, as much as this blip on the Internet is a record, as saying Robert A. Hanamirian of Philadelphia and New York, who left this world last month at his home on the Upper West Side, was NOT married at the time. He married twice, and the second divorce was in the early 2000s. He isn’t “survived” by that woman. She was out of his life years ago, and he wouldn’t appreciate the illusion/allusion of that association if he were still here to protest.